Meg was hard to like. Mostly because she came off as the type of character she insisted she wasn’t, (judgmental, and snobby,) or didn’t believe she was. She couldn’t help having the background she did, but it was the thing that came between her budding relationship with Colby at every heart-wrenching, headache-inducing turn. On the surface, Meg seemed perfect, or as close to perfect. She was well versed in politics, had a seemingly perfect boyfriend, and a best friend who could finish her sentences.
All the while, Meg was dealing with her parent's divorce and the effects of it. Then she met Colby. He pulled things out of her she wasn’t ready to confront, but she also did the same for him.
This was where things got a little murky in terms of my like/dislike. Their relationship was troublesome. They judged the other for things they didn’t understand and wouldn’t discuss. I want to blame it on the naivety of being young, but there was something just aggravating about their relationship. I think the differences, and the way they handled it was intentional. It added a layer of realness to the novel. The author deliberately did not make their relationship or the development of their relationship easy. It was kind of refreshing—but again also aggravating. With all the disagreements and the differences that never seemed to stop coming up, I wondered what they liked about the other. The romance was by no means soft, but I would have liked to see some softness come into their relationship. It's more of a personal preference.
The book is well written. The concept is fresh. I liked the novel as a whole, but the romance was hard to swallow. Though some readers might appreciate the fact that things hadn't come easy—like the imperfect kiss and the closed-door sex scene that was awkward. (I liked those parts) Some will find Meg and Colby downright annoying. You Say it First is hit or miss.